My Happy Life

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How happy are you―really?  We are here to live a happy life! 

Start your very own “Happiness Project” today by answering these questions openly and honestly about what you want from your life everyday.


The beauty of these questions is there are no right or wrong answers. They are just meant to get your wheels turning, and maybe help you reflect on the decisions you’ve been making, and the ones you’d like to make from now on.


1. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?


2. What are the top three things you cherish in your life?


3.  We learn from our mistakes, yet we’re always so afraid to make one. Where is this true for you?

4. What risk would you take if you knew you could not fail?

5. What is your greatest strength? Have any of your recent actions demonstrated this strength?

6.. At what time in your life have you felt most  passion and fun?

7. What charity do you feel most connected with and would like to devote more time to? (The key word is time!)

8. What one piece of advice would you offer a co-worker?

9. Which is worse—failing or never trying?

10. Name the 5 friends that mean the most to you?

11. If you could apologize to one family member, who would it be?

12. What is the one job/cause/activity that could get you out of bed happily for the rest of your life? Are you doing it now?

13. If you found out that you were going to die in the next 24 hours, would you have any regrets?

14. What is the one lesson in your life that you are most grateful for?

15. How many times can you say that you have helped someone with no self motive and just for pure giving?

16. Would you marry your spouse all over again?

17. Are you settling in life for less because you are scared to reach for more?

18. Do you know yourself and set goals?

19. Which worries you more – saying yes or saying no- to people?

20. Have you been the kind of friend you’d want as one?

21. Have you asked yourself, what do I have to lose or gain if I just say it/do it?

22. Would you be happier if you let go of caring what other people think?

23. Can you find comfort believing you did the best you could during that time and circumstance?

24. Have you accepted that the life you dreamed about as a child may not be where you are now?

25. If money was no issue, what would the one thing you would do for yourself this year?


These questions are powerful questions and can give us a chance to challenge our own ideals and perhaps shed some light on what we are and are not committed to and what we want for ourselves  to make our life a Happy Life.

It’s important to understand that we don’t always recognize that we are always committed to something. If it’s not our own success or happiness, it’s staying safe and comfortable and not reaching out for more. Today, is the day to set goals, be fearless and believe that life is about the choices we make and the choices we take.